There is a battle for your heart, your spouse’s heart, and the covenant of marriage. Your heart is under attack. Her heart is under attack. Your marriage is under attack. Based on my subjective data asking men over the years about 60% of men do not pray regularly or frequently with their wives. It is time to assassinate spiritual…
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This one question could change your marriage this year. Ask yourself this question: “Would I want to be married to me?” A mediocre marriage is a direct result of the lack of investment that you have put into your personal, spiritual, emotional, and relational growth as a person. All growth can start from this one…
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Three silent killers in your marriage and a script to use for building a passionate marriage tonight. 1) Hard conversations.2) Your desires.3) Listening. What to do instead. Use the following as a simple script. Say it with clarity. Own what you feel. Be calm. Then begin listening. 1) I would like to have a conversation…
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The second Friday of January is known as quitters Friday. (It really is a thing.) We all need to quit. The modern world has made quitting complex because we are addicted to not being enough and having enough. Therefore, it has become easy… Easy to say yes. Easy to live in shame. Easy to live…
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I have been considering this week how words and conversations can be unhelpful to others. I am a steward of the language that I use and the conversations I join. How can I steward my conversations this year? Our tongue is like the rudder of a ship and holds tremendous power to move people closer…
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One question every man must ask and answer with ruthless honesty. Who is in your corner and has access to your life? Every man stewarding his life well has men who know him and are known by him. Can you name five men right now by name who are holding you to higher standards in…
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God is in no particular hurry to get you to your ‘Promised Land.’ Who you are becoming is his transformational desire along the journey for your good and his glory. What can you say no to right now? May you be a faithful steward of the process today.
Seeking the will of God this year in your leadership? Practice a posture of indifference when making key decisions. Often times personal leadership, families, or teams have preferred outcomes to a decision that is already in place and then we casually ask God to be with us in our decision. What if instead, we let…
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How do we enter the year as faithful stewards and become the men and women to whom God can entrust the care of his Kingdom? The world has sold us a lie that we are owners and the problem with an owners mindset is that it keeps us bound to this earth. The simple answer…
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My fitness stack and how to be at peak performance at 42. 1) Food is fuel. Two choices in approaching food. Eat food to work out. Or work out to eat food. Once I made the mental shift seven years ago that food is the fuel I started to lean out. 2) Play the long…
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