How To Stay Connected After Difficult Conversations Your spouse and team can see right through the posing and leadership veneer. Are you willing to do the interior work to go to the next level? In the upcoming video course that you will see below, the foundation of a healthy leader is the calmest person in…
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I have a confession to make. Prior to falling hard during my time as an Executive Minister I had on my calendar a scheduled day each month for intentional rest, solitude, and active listening. (This was different from a day off or a Sabbath. In fact, it was in red on Wednesday in my Google calendar.)…
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Can I be honest? This morning I got frustrated that I had to make the bed… I wake up every day before my wife and it puts me in a position unable to make our bed. I have noticed though that our bed gets made every day. For most, it makes no sense to make your bed.…
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You may be familiar with this common tagline or quote made popular by Jocko Willink and his outstanding book Extreme Ownership: How Navy Seals Lead and Win. Jocko says, “Discipline Equals Freedom.” (Aristotle said “through discipline comes freedom.) What does that mean? To better understand one’s worldview and values a good coach will circle back and clarify their belief.…
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In my personal quest for leadership, success, and providing for the family I chased climbing the ladder of success. Our fourth girl had just been born and I was one year into being the Executive Minister at a church. I was climbing the ladder and I ended up in a place where my interior life…
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I received a message this week asking me to pray for a man, his spouse, and their marriage that was falling apart. My parents got divorced when I was three and I know the pain that is caused when darkness overcomes a family. It breaks my heart to hear of families and marriages being torn apart. Darkness…
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The little black box known as your phone seems to be interrupting every inch of our life. We have justified our usage and addiction but consider the following. Here are a few questions for reflection: Is your phone the first thing you look at in the morning? How often do you go to the bathroom…
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Years ago I was stuck in a selfish view of marriage and the short-term gratification of what comes to mind when one hears the word intimacy. In my limited view of being newly married, I believed that intimacy was the end goal of sex. A common problem that men or couples will ask for help…
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We need to be vigilant these days to raise our children to walk and be in union with Christ. There is a battle going on for their soul and as a father, we have great stewardship to lead and fight this battle. All men have varying degrees of emotional wounds from their biological fathers. It…
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You don’t need to yell at everyone in an attempt to be diverse. Be diverse. There is no manual for leading with heart. Throw the book away and discover what is happening on the inside. Everyone needs a listening ear and a strong presence that brings out their best. Love is what makes you human. …
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