Three Ways to Become a More Desirable Husband

A common sentiment I hear from the men I serve is that,

“I wish she would initiate.”

Brother, let’s flip that question.

— Are you the type of husband that is worth initiating for? —

Her initiating is less about what you perceive as her duty and more about the level of polarity, tension, and attraction you are bringing into the relationship.

Here are your three ways to become more desirable:

Take the lead and plan the calendar for the family.
Instead of her telling you what the plans are for the weekend, create the plans and execute.

Bring your work strategy home.
You lead with strategy at work—bring the same focus, passion, and energy home.
Lead a family mission, vision, and values meeting.

Start your day in the Word.
Do this day in and day out and watch the transformation that happens inside you—and in your marriage.

Bonus Tip:

Find the babysitter.
Better yet, find three babysitters and plan your dates.
This will release her mental load and make her feel safe and supported.

Becoming a husband worth following will make you more attractive and desirable.

Let go of the attachment for her to initiate.

The ultimate goal is to help your wife become a radiant woman who feels safe, seen, and protected.