This moment could have led to their divorce.Instead, they chose to fight for one another — and heal. Backstory It’s conference season. You’re traveling — a few work partners, back-to-back meetings, and long days. One Old Fashioned turns into four.And on the ride back, you end up in an Uber with the lone female on…
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A common sentiment I hear from the men I serve is that, “I wish she would initiate.” Brother, let’s flip that question. — Are you the type of husband that is worth initiating for? — Her initiating is less about what you perceive as her duty and more about the level of polarity, tension, and…
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In a world where leadership is often measured by bottom-line results, Greg Massey, CEO of First United Bank, offers a refreshing perspective—one rooted in faith, integrity, and people-centered growth. In a recent conversation on Whole Hearted Leadership podcast, Greg shared his journey of leading a company from just a few dozen employees in the 1990s…
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In a world where our phones are designed to steal our attention, what does it look like to reclaim our presence? That’s the conversation I had with Joey Odom, co-founder of Aro, on a recent episode of the Whole Hearted Leadership podcast. Joey’s mission is simple yet profound: help people develop a healthier relationship with…
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Introduction: Leadership is not just about strategy and execution—it’s about the heart. In my recent conversation with Ron and Nan Deal, we explored the Pain and Peace Cycle, a framework that brings clarity and healing to both marriage and leadership. The lessons from The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationships by Understanding and Managing Yourself…
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High-performer—one of the most overused words in leadership. But what does it actually mean? I had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Henry Cloud to unpack this, and his answer was a game-changer. Instead of chasing performance, we should be asking: Are we growing in maturity? Are we becoming complete? In this conversation, we…
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What makes a marriage strong? Is it grand gestures, years of experience, or simply luck? According to Trey Morgan, none of the above. Instead, it’s about daily choices, intentionality, and prioritizing your spouse in the midst of life’s chaos. In a recent episode of Wholehearted Leadership, I had the privilege of sitting down with Trey…
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Do you feel tension with your business partner? Are you having disagreements about how to operate? If you are a faith-driven leader continue with this thought for a minute. I am going to project a question on you, but it comes from our shared belief. “Are you praying for ____?” Insert his or her name.…
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He called this week, deeply concerned about his lack of empathy and selfishness in his marriage. A high-achieving, Christ-following man—but trapped in a cycle of perfectionism and criticism, unknowingly suffocating connection and intimacy. This is the hidden struggle of many good men. Driven. Successful. Yet disconnected. The fear is real: 💭 What if I share…
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For most of my life, I wrestled with the concept of boundaries. As a self-identified “nice guy,” I thought saying yes to everyone and meeting their needs would earn me respect, love, and success. But the truth is, nice guys don’t necessarily win. Instead, they end up exhausted, overcommitted, and disconnected. When you say yes…
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Nearly two decades ago, as I pursued my psychology degree with a focus on marriage therapy, one of the prerequisites for completing the program and starting my internship was attending a 12-step recovery meeting. I remember thinking, Why would I need to do this? My prideful, self-assured heart didn’t see the need. To me, those…
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