Most high achievers are quietly feeling behind despite their success.
Fear keeps you stuck in a cycle of trying to make the “right” decision.
You’ve lost your strength with your wife—you walk on eggshells, hoping to keep the peace.
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, even tried having the hard conversations… but nothing really changes.
You’ve mastered the “nice guy” act—it gets you access, keeps things moving, and looks good from the outside.
But inside, you’re running on empty. You can’t remember the last time you clearly heard God’s voice. You feel exhausted—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally.
“I felt so lonely…”
The real story…
I stood in the kitchen surrounded by a beautiful wife and four young daughters and thought, “How can life look this good—yet feel so lonely?”
I had climbed the ladder—executive pastor, all the right training—and still carried a divided heart I couldn’t fix.
That moment began my journey from performing and pleasing for approval to living from a whole heart.
Now, I help high-performing executives, CEO’s, business owners, and entrepreneurs do the same—look successful on the outside but are quietly disconnected on the inside.
Master the psychology of marriage and leadership—
The Whole Hearted Leader Pathway
TELL THE TRUTH Name the patterns keeping you stuck.
RENEW THE MIND Discover your true identity.
LIVE TRANSFORMED Lead with wholeness and intimacy.
WORK WITH ME
Transform Your Marriage and Leadership
Fear is holding you back. I will guide you to untangle the lies that hold you back, unlock the power of forgiveness, overcome conflict, and help you discover your true identity.
Whether in a group, 1:1, or intensive, the path is the same: tell the truth, renew the mind, and live from the inside out.
This isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about transformation. You’ll learn to listen to God’s voice and lead free, connected, whole, and resilient—in marriage, life, and leadership.
Helping high-capacity men unlock their true identity, uncover more intimacy with their wife, and unleash Kingdom impact.
WHAT OTHERS SAY
“I needed someone to talk to about leading my wife in this next season of marriage and intimacy and health goals. The accountability was what I needed.”
Seth Buechley
CEO Telecom Consultant
“His guidance keeps me grounded in my God-given identity, focused on building healthy team, and having a dynamic marriage.’
Billy Blackburn
Owner Blackburn HVAC and Plumbing
“I was having a hard time connecting all the dots together about physical, emotional, spiritual and leadership health. He did not let me set and coast. He empowered me to walk fully with God.”
David Hamel
Chick-fil-A Owner / Operator
As a former MLB pitcher for the Texas Rangers… Lantz isn’t the general manager of the team. He isn’t even the coach. He is ON THE TEAM with you. Put Lantz on your team and let him lead you.’
Shawn Tolleson
Co-Founder POP Athletics
Lantz helped me clarify my goals, get alignment on my schedule, and redeem valuable time with my family. I highly recommend working with Lantz in your personal and professional life.
Dr. Josh McSpadden
Mangaging Partner
“The ability to connect on personal and business development has helped me see life’s integration. I have more intentionality, purpose, and goals with clear accountability. During our time together, store revenue has grown significantly.”
Hunter Clinton
Chick-fil-A Owner / Operator
“By becoming a man of my word, I’ve experienced greater connection with my wife, and now I’m excited to step into the next level of our marriage.”
Wade Denton
Commercial Pilot
“I was able to gain the confidence I needed to step away from a lucrative corporate job and regain my health. There is a night day difference with my kids and the involvement I now have with my family.”
Gordon Hutchinson
Coach and COO
Real Relationship Coaching for Faith-Driven Business Owners
When you do this work, everything changes.
Your wife starts to soften again.
Your presence calms the room instead of escalating it.
You rediscover laughter, confidence, and clarity.
You lead from peace, not pressure.
And you finally feel aligned—from the boardroom to the bedroom
This is more than coaching—it’s formation.
What you’re longing for isn’t another achievement.
It’s wholeness.
And that happens when your soul is restored and your identity is rooted in Christ.
That’s the work we do here.
It’s time to lead wholeheartedly.
The world doesn’t need more successful men. It needs wholehearted ones.
The world is full of men chasing success while their souls grow numb.
Your wife doesn’t need more hustle—she needs your presence.
Your team doesn’t need another boss—they need a grounded leader.
And your soul doesn’t need another goal—it needs God.
Next Steps
Join The Academy, and reset your leadership, uncover your true identity, and unlock deeper intimacy.
The goal is a transformation from the boardroom to the bedroom.
The academy
$347
per month
- Monthly Leadership Principle
- Intimacy Pathway Challenge
- 2x Per Month Group Coaching
- Weekly Pause Coaching
- Monthly Creative Date Nights
- Identity Alignment Practices
- Exclusive Asynchronous Coaching Access
- Invitation for Deeper 1:1 Coaching
TURN DECADES INTO DAYS with PROFESSIONAL WISDOM
As the host of the Whole Hearted Leadership, Lantz has spent hundreds of hours learning from leadership experts, CEO’s, and professional athletes in the field of spiritual formation, marriage, and business.
You can learn from legends like John Delony, Henry Cloud, John Eldredge, Patrick Lencioni, Garrett Unclebach, Greg Massey, and Brent Beshore.
Working with Lantz means that he will transfer their wisdom into every coaching conversation.
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